
My Latest Posts
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- Hup, Two, Three, FourA Starting Over at 60 Blog Last night, the dream came back. I am at a meeting with one of my former employers. I shouldn’t be there. But I am.Continue reading “Hup, Two, Three, Four”
- Can you resist the patriarchy and follow today’s beauty standards?A Starting Over at 60 Blog The other day I watched an Insta reel from a woman noting the return of skinny culture. Look at Sharon and Kelly Osborne, andContinue reading “Can you resist the patriarchy and follow today’s beauty standards?”
- Long Overdue: An ApologyA Starting Over at 60 Blog This past week, the renowned medical journal, The Lancet, issued an apology. Specifically, the journal admitted a bias and ignorance toward women’s medical issues.Continue reading “Long Overdue: An Apology”
- It’s May and… May I Ask a Favor?My book— cover above— will be coming out late fall 2026. My publisher and I are in final edits, as well as beginning tor raise awareness. I rarely ask forContinue reading “It’s May and… May I Ask a Favor?”
- The Trad Wife: Is It Driving the End of Marriage?A Surviving Facts Blog The other day, I was running errands and ended up stopping in a posh cafe in a posh New Jersey town. I wasn’t eating lunch; rather,Continue reading “The Trad Wife: Is It Driving the End of Marriage?”
- Serenity NowA Raising Autism Blog Do you remember the Seinfeld episodes when Frank Constanza tried soothing himself by using the mantra “Serenity Now”? I’ve been using a mantra too. As withContinue reading “Serenity Now”
- It’s a Big, Bad World, Part 3 of Helping Autistic Girls Become WomenA Raising Autism Blog I’m an optimist by nature, at least most of the time. I have believed fervently that every problem can be solved. I base this belief onContinue reading “It’s a Big, Bad World, Part 3 of Helping Autistic Girls Become Women”
- Spinning: Helping Autistic Girls Become Women, Part 2A Raising Autism Blog The Italian tour over, we were back to “regular” life. I was still working at this time, though I’d lose my job just a month andContinue reading “Spinning: Helping Autistic Girls Become Women, Part 2”
- Helping Autistic Girls Become Women, Part 1, The Italian TourA Raising Autism Blog I’ve had a rough few weeks. I’m sick of Trump and the miserable state of America. I’m tired of trying to figure out how to protectContinue reading “Helping Autistic Girls Become Women, Part 1, The Italian Tour”
- Exciting Announcement!Two years ago, I was called into an early morning meeting. At the age of 60, my corporate career was suddenly over. It was a tough time, and I neededContinue reading “Exciting Announcement!”
- Hags, Witches and Grams: Images of Aging Women in Popular Culture Excerpt from You’re Always 39: How to manage and recover from late career job loss and reinvent yourself, my book coming out in October 2026! Around ten years ago, IContinue reading “Hags, Witches and Grams: Images of Aging Women in Popular Culture “
- Bob’s Your UncleInto the Wilderness: Story 61 The scenario. You’re eating Cheerios with oat milk, stepping snow-logged boots onto your commuter bus or simply sitting at your desk with a nice coldContinue reading “Bob’s Your Uncle”
- The Ghosts of ChristmasInto the Wilderness: Story 60 Christmas Past My father sits in an avocado-green velvet chair, a large Waterford glass with bourbon on the rocks in his hand. In the kitchen,Continue reading “The Ghosts of Christmas”
- CreviceInto the Wilderness: Story 59 I’ve been thinking a lot about attachment. Some people can cut people out of their lives as simply as lancing a pimple. Slash and theContinue reading “Crevice”
- I failed my MRI, and I’m alive because of itInto the Wilderness: Story 58 Ten years ago, I was hospitalized with acute abdominal pain. My temperature was 105, and I was vomiting and crying with pain. Less than anContinue reading “I failed my MRI, and I’m alive because of it”
- Please, And Thank YouWe are entering the holiday season when gratitude, gatherings and gifting carry us to year’s end. I rarely ask for favors or gifts, but I am boldly asking for oneContinue reading “Please, And Thank You”
- Ghost StoryInto the Wilderness: Story 57 The political landscape has been such a roller coaster that I couldn’t bear to dwell on it. I’m both heartened by the democratic “wave,” asContinue reading “Ghost Story”
- Get Thee Behind MeInto the Wilderness: Story 56 My fourth grade teacher scared me. I grew up in Oklahoma in the center of the Bible Belt. Although church and state were supposed toContinue reading “Get Thee Behind Me”
- Lost and FoundInto the Wilderness: Story 55 A close family member and I have not spoken in almost 20 years. His children are adults with careers. He looks as he always didContinue reading “Lost and Found”
- Bad GirlsI haven’t shared a poem in years. Here’s a new one. Here’s to the bad girls, The ones who rise at midnight, Twitching for a fix Of wind in theContinue reading “Bad Girls”
- Snow White and the Corporate EconomyAn Into the Wilderness blog: Story 54 Surviving Facts blog The nights are already turning crisp in New Jersey. Last night, as I sat on my sister’s back porch watchingContinue reading “Snow White and the Corporate Economy”
- PackingInto the Wilderness: Story 53 No, I’m not talking about packing heat. I’m talking about packing up everything you have gathered over sixty years of life and putting it allContinue reading “Packing”
- A Moment to LoveAn Into the Wilderness blog I don’t usually use Walk the Moon to celebrate life milestones. But today, I am. Today, my husband and I have been married for 11Continue reading “A Moment to Love”
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